How do you handle situation when you husband is in temper?

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When I was married with my ex-husband, he would have terrible temper tantrums even for the slightest things. Initially, it got on my nerves that I was being blamed for the littlest thing that wasn't even my mistake nor would it have made any difference to anything that would matter. Gradually, after my son was borned, I got better at turning a dead ear at his tantrums and would lock myself and baby in the room if he goes into one of his rage.

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I would just keep quiet and let him say his piece. Of course, I will also listen to his points but would only address them when he has calmed down. Same as what the rest have been saying, it is important to keep your calm and not flare up with him. Only tackle the issue(s) when both are calm and in the right state of mind. Otherwise, all discussions may be futile and may lead to nowhere.

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Normally I will just walk away and do my thing.. If he come to me and throw temper I will say "talk to me when you are in better mood". Or after 1-2 hrs, I will go to him and say "are you feeling better? Isn't a good time to talk now?" My temper is not that good, I can throw things that around me If my temper limit burst.. But after have my children, I close 1 and a half eyes..

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Very sleep-deprived this year, no energy to deal with husband. I received no financial support or emotional support during my third trimester from him. For my sanity, just ignore him at the moment. He is an intelligent person, who is capable of controlling his emotions. If he chooses to be angry, it's not my responsibility.

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4y ago

I sooooo need this. Thank you.

I’ll take a really deep breath and calm myself first before anything else. Give each other some space first before talking again. If he still wants to thrash things out Just let him rant. No point to argue back when he’s already so mad

As for me, I’m not very good with putting words on the spot. I need time to think so that anything that coming out from my mouth will not making it worst. So i prefer texting, less drama and more facts 😂

Choose the right time to talk with him, or say some nice words like "dear how was work is everything alright", some wives the first thing they welcome their husband is complain about kids and house items.

Keep calm, stand your ground but at the same time take the high road. I think it's better if you talk to him about it more when emotions aren't high.

I just let him be. He will talk to me once his anger cools down. There's no point in arguing if he's mad.