Once a cheat always a cheat? What's everyone's opinion

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Cheating, and infidelity in general, are such complex things that can't be understood in simple terms. Psychologist Esther Perel did a really illuminating Ted Talk that tackled Infidelity and its complexity which I think everyone should watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q

The statement is too much of a generalization. It's like saying all kids are whiny because they cry. I personally think there are different reasons why people cheat (of course, I'm not condoning the action) but not everyone is compulsive with their flaws.

If a person already cheat you, it already shows that he/she don't love you 100%.. And if someone don't love you to 100% it will repeat in the future again, it just need to be the "right" woman/man to be there again.. Once a cheater, always a cheater..

It shall not be generalized to everyone, it will include many factors like level of involvement which changes from person to person, time to time, if say I have cheated on someone it is not necessary that I will cheat on my next partner as well.

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I know it's cliche. Yes, not just do I think that a leopard cannot change it's spots - but science has proven that a cheater will always cheat - due to genetic factors. Watch more here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqQf4Sg1g9w

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Its not that simplistic. There is a need to identify the real reason and talk this through. Ofc breach of trust has happened and emotions will run high. http://in.askmen.com/dating-tips/1109708/article/the-different-levels-of-cheating

Just because they've cheated before doesn't mean they'll cheat again. Some people will, some people won't. Different people are different. May be accurate within that specific relationship but not necessarily on the next one

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There are 2 things when people commited cheating. 1. They can't do the best for their partner 2 Their partner can't do the best for them It's a 2 side of coins but however,, it harms relationships

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I differ. You're like - Once a poor, always a poor. Once a poor Richard Branson can't always be a poor Richard Branson. But totally depends on situation, individual, and his/her will to change.