Is your spouse your best friend? Why or Why not?

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My husband is a better best friend than husband lol. We spend most of our day together. We have so much fun together. We make each other laugh so hard. And we have alot in common. He grew up in group homes n stuff so he dosent really know how to " love" in the typical way and it's hard for me to see it when he is trying to be loving. He's not very affectionate and had a hard time sharing his life. He tends to make decisions without me and thinks it's ok to hang out with women Alone. And no that's not necessary a bad thing but after cheating last year it's hard for me to accept him hanging out with other women.

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Yes and no. Since we now share a life together, there are many things I can freely discuss only with him. However at the same time, I have my own set of friends, work and life and I do not wish to share almost everything about it with him. Similarly for him. So while we share almost everything, some fun things are just for your gal pals 😉

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hmm.. most of the time no :( He keeps me out from knowing everything about him and I feel like he's not always interested to get to know all things about me too. But I wanna turn him into one. So when the time comes that we really settle down and tie the knot, things will run smoothly. *fingerscrossed*

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He will only get worse after marriage. #truestory #goodluck

Yes, he is my best friend because I feel I can discuss with him everything. I can share my innermost secrets with him. This is all you want in a good friend that you be able to open up your heart without being judged and I have got this comfort in my husband.

A marriage is and should be the best and closest of friendships. No other friendships should ever come close to or supersede that. Your life-long partner, your bestest best friend, that really is what marriage is all about.

Yes he is. Even though I love and hate him. It's so hard.... To maintain a marriage. Always had a different idea on the whole. I do everything good and bad with him. So why should he not be my bestie.

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50/50 cos we know each other since 13. we all have flaws so sometimes i can share everything with him but sometimes he used it to backfire that makes me wants to struggle him. 😂😂😂

yap. we have so much in common and talk about things and stuff , get a drink and eat a lot.. even though we have a son we still find time to have fun and enjoy our alone time.

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Nope. Never my best friend never someone i could confide with. We are constantly arguing and fighting. sometimes i feel better keeping it to myself then confiding in him

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Definitely yes ☺, because were the yin and yang of the creative process, the yin alone cannot arise, yang cannot grow, yin and yang are divisible but inseparable.