Our helper, who's been serving my husband's family for years and now takes care of our son, has just been diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Is it our responsibility to cover her treatment and medical expenses? I don't agree with my husband that it is.

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Your husband is a good man. If I were him I won't have married you because our moral values are incompatible. Your might be able to terminate her work permit and send her home and you won't be responsible. As a Singaporean and compassionate person... I would first check if I can afford the treatment in sg.. If I can't.. I would send her home but give her a sum of money that will cover her treatment back home.

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She is juz asking a question. U dun have to attack her personally. R u a helper and u felt unjust by her question?

yes, its our responsibility. my helper ran fever from her overdue iud and serious discharge and painful cramp everyday. changed 3rd gynae i offered to pay for her as it was 700+ , many of my frens were against it and said she must had been 'naughty blah blah blah.' stereotyping!! i know my helper, she is not that sort

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I sure don't know if it's your responsibility. However you have said it she has been with your husband's family for a few years and even taken care of your son. I would definitely pay for it whether it not it is my responsibility.

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Yes it is. Have you bought her insurance? Do check on the insurance coverage.