Friendship

Question

Any mommies ever experience something similar like this?If your close friends of 10+ years have never check or only check probably less than 3-5 times on you and your baby during your whole pregnancy journey, but also said they are excited to see your baby, and not on frequent talking terms and meet ups like before pregnancy, would you let them see and play with your baby? 🤔Also, I don’t know why I feel disappointed none of them bothers to ask (at least) a “how are you?”. I understand everyone has their own commitments and busy with their own life but I can’t help feeling this way. Pregnancy journey does make me feel lonely sometimes 😣

Skye chua · Accepted Answer

yes I have a closed friend who I confide to. once she found out I was pregnant, we barely hangout. she also didn't text me once to ask about my pregnancy. I was disappointed but I understand she has a different view towards pregnancy and having children; doesn't like kids n most likely doesnt want to get pregnant. I think it's ok because that's probably more of her issue than mine. I just focus on my baby and reconnect w her later. she is still a good friend