Crushing on my colleague

He knows I am married and he also has a girl that he’s currently chasing. He is helpful, friendly and humorous. I feel attracted to him because he’s tall and strong. I can’t help but feel flutters when he gets near me. Is this normal? I take the same bus with him everyday after work since we only live a few blocks away. My husband also know him and even jokes to my son that I have a new boyfriend. Ahhh what should I do? Difficult to avoid him unless one of us quits….

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Look at your spouse and reminisce the moment you married him, why you married him and why you had kids with him. Probably will kick some sense into you. Pls don't waste your marriage just like that. Not worth it! Imagine if your spouse felt the same way like you do. Will you be happy?

Super Mum

Be realistic and matured please. You are married.